<![CDATA[What was the hardest thing about coming out?]]>What was the hardest thing about coming out?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/23380/what-was-the-hardest-thing-about-coming-outRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 12:16:18 GMTSat, 23 Jan 2016 12:16:26 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Wed, 06 Jul 2016 16:26:40 GMT]]>Explain to your parents that you are not different

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178912https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178912Wed, 06 Jul 2016 16:26:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Thu, 16 Jun 2016 23:41:23 GMT]]>Probably, telling my mom–wondering how she would take it. :afraid:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177189https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177189Thu, 16 Jun 2016 23:41:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Thu, 16 Jun 2016 20:09:59 GMT]]>I haven´t come out yet (21), but Im thinking about telling my 3 closest friends and Its gonna be hard because they are not homophobic and I feel guilty for not telling them, but I was just not ready and still arent 100% (but close). Also, I have 3 cousins and 1 of them is Lesbian (her parents, sisters and me know), and I have also not told them although I definitely could. My parents on the other side and my grandma (my favourite person) will not take it well at all, so I guess that will be hard.

Something I noticed about coming out is what makes it more difficult is not really people knowing about you but the pain it will bring to the ones who are not so homo-friendly

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177179https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177179Thu, 16 Jun 2016 20:09:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Thu, 16 Jun 2016 16:35:03 GMT]]>**_I didn't come out of the closet…..I exploded, together with the hinges and all  :laugh:

kidding aside, there's no coming out, my parents and siblings just knew I was gay, no drama

During my highschool years, I even brought my gay classm8 at my house after school hours, My classm8s' mothers knew that their sons are gay too and are friend with my mother....._**

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177173https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177173Thu, 16 Jun 2016 16:35:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Thu, 16 Jun 2016 13:06:16 GMT]]>accepting yourself and feeling guilty for "lying" before.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177146https://community.gaytor.rent/post/177146Thu, 16 Jun 2016 13:06:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Mon, 06 Jun 2016 12:33:53 GMT]]>@poltergeist:

Even telling it to my family is the hardest thing itself 😕

^-^

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176220https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176220Mon, 06 Jun 2016 12:33:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Mon, 06 Jun 2016 08:22:08 GMT]]>Even telling it to my family is the hardest thing itself 😕

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176196https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176196Mon, 06 Jun 2016 08:22:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Mon, 06 Jun 2016 05:51:06 GMT]]>@archangelslc:

The act of just doing it, with all the fear of judgement and rejection… but after coming out, it became much, much easier.

Good for you!

;D

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176167https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176167Mon, 06 Jun 2016 05:51:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 04:27:55 GMT]]>The act of just doing it, with all the fear of judgement and rejection… but after coming out, it became much, much easier.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176070https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176070Sun, 05 Jun 2016 04:27:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 03:20:13 GMT]]>Friends and family reactions deffo

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176067https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176067Sun, 05 Jun 2016 03:20:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Sun, 29 May 2016 23:37:02 GMT]]>parents and best friend

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175578https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175578Sun, 29 May 2016 23:37:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Fri, 29 Apr 2016 14:47:33 GMT]]>@horyna:

my parents, it took them a while, my mom had the "go see a doctor" for a week or so but I answered that that will never happen. Well, you must give others some time to adjust and it was 25 years ago.

Now they have fully accepted now and tell their friends and everybody who wants to know.

I've been out to school in the 90s too, that was exhausting. 😉

In the 90s?

That should have been much different than it is nowadays..

😉

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172714https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172714Fri, 29 Apr 2016 14:47:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Fri, 22 Apr 2016 21:56:44 GMT]]>my parents, it took them a while, my mom had the "go see a doctor" for a week or so but I answered that that will never happen. Well, you must give others some time to adjust and it was 25 years ago.

Now they have fully accepted now and tell their friends and everybody who wants to know.

I've been out to school in the 90s too, that was exhausting. 😉

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172159https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172159Fri, 22 Apr 2016 21:56:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Wed, 20 Apr 2016 18:54:22 GMT]]>For me the hardest thing was to tell to someone that I new for a long time. And I tought I would disapoint that person because I lied to him/her for a such a long time.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172046https://community.gaytor.rent/post/172046Wed, 20 Apr 2016 18:54:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What was the hardest thing about coming out? on Sat, 23 Jan 2016 15:06:45 GMT]]>mostly, not being accepted 😢

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/166224https://community.gaytor.rent/post/166224Sat, 23 Jan 2016 15:06:45 GMT