I've had a lot of friends and a lot of fuck buddies over the years and I have never once met a true "50/50" bisexual guy.In my opinion 99% of people are oriented straight or gay.

your tiny existence, your tiny little experience is the one and only truth of the world…

Sexual orientation is a sliding scale.

Exactly ! And because of this, when you are bi at 50/50 or close to that, you'r ideal partner as many straight or gay people think, is not "any girl or any guy" and is not twice  the size of a straight or gay guy. Not at all it means it's way more difficult to pick a girl, and to pick a guy that might be a suitable sex partner for you. As such your range of possible partner is as large as for the straights and the gays, it's just half in the girl zone ( hence making you not finding "any" girl a sexual partner like for most straights) and half in the men range (hence half the range of a real gay men).All in all it's as difficult for a bi to find a suitable partner than for straights or gays.

Bisexual's have it hard because both the straight and LGBT community reject them and think they are simply being indecisive. It's ridiculous. Also, don't ever try to change a bisexual's orientation by trying to make them go completely gay. It won't work. Trying to do that is no different from a straight folk trying to make a gay man straight. Impossible. Sexuality isn't a choice. Bisexuality included. Some people like the opposite sex, some like the same sex, and some like both the opposite sex and the same sex. Nothing is wrong about that, and none of it a choice the person makes. They are born that way.

They really exist: I'm really bisexual. I love women, but sometime I have sex also with men.

@bimarriedguy:

As others have stated, we definitely exist. I'm married and love my wife sexually. However, I've always had a thing for men as well and am very much attracted to them sexually as well.

I've had a lot of friends and a lot of fuck buddies over the years and I have never once met a true "50/50" bisexual guy.  I've met gay guys who sometimes have sex with girls.  I've met straight guys who sometimes have sex with guys.  But in my experience it's always more of a horny/sexual thing than it is a "true love" thing.  I also knew a number of guys who identified bisexual in their teens but by the time were in college were exclusively gay

With billions of people in the world I'm sure there are some that are true 50/50 bisexual but I think it's very rare.  In my opinion 99% of people are oriented straight or gay.  Sure, maybe they sometimes enjoy sex with the other gender on occasion but they have a clear orientation/preference for guys or girls.

Thing is, there are people to refuse to see the world in shades, only black and white.  For them, people are either 100% gay or 100% straight.  (Kinsey should come back to the grave to kick their asses, and turn them impotent and frigid)

There's also the thing that sometimes, gay people say they're bi when they first come out (think Elton John), maybe to avoid bluntness, maybe to not be seen as too extreme, maybe just out of fear of utter rejection (since 'bi' is still manageable in the minds of others).

But liking both men and women in different gradations is valid, it is what fills the space between 'Exclusively Homosexual' and 'Exclusively Heterosexual' in the Kinsey Scale.

I knew I was attracted to boys since I was a little kid, although my very first memory of a crush was with a little girl named Erika when I was 4 years old. And it's an experience that right to this day I clearly remember.
But I also remembered having little crushes for some other boy not much later.

But while being conflicted, I only had GFs till I meet my fist BF, when I was 25 yo. It was a process leaving my GF and getting with my BF, but I never looked back. So, well, for a while I used to say I was bi, but then I realized I didnt care for girls at all. Now I just consider myself as gay.

Throughout my life, I've had hetero, bi, and finally gay phases. So I used to think the "bi" moment was just a transitional phase toward accepting who I am now. And I applied it to others: bi people just cant cope with being gay, and dwell in the concept of "not being REALLY gay".
And while I belive it's true for many, it doesnt suit everybody. Some guys really are bi and like both genders. Many times they prefer one over the other, or prefer to pick one because it's a simpler way of life, while still having some D on the side. But the point is that yes, bisexuality does exist.

Do I believe that all those who advertise themselves as bi are REALLY bi? No, I dont. But I do believe that many are genuinely bi.

@hhsq:

Really? Of course it does!

Yet most who claim to be BI are actually MOSTLY gay!
you can tell it also by their appearance, If someone looks like a fag and he claims to be BI, then by all means he does not like women!

Well yes, and so if someone doesn't look like a fag but is totally gay cannot be really gay? I knew also people that looked like fags and instead where totally straight (and people were always amazed when they found out that).
How you act or look don't define necessarily what you sexually are, but there are also a lot of people that also "change" their beaviour to adapt what the people expect from them, so it's a very complicate matter to be concluded with 2 words…

Yes, bi exists. Everywhere from hetero to gay and inbetween and a whole bunch of other things exist. There are pretty much no limits when it comes to sexuality, only tendencies and probabilities.

Bi exists. Mostly gay exists. Mostly straight exists. If you want to get really into it, never forget there's a separation between the desires of sexuality and the behaviour, and so how you define sexuality must recognise that. Not to forget that labels are unnecessary, really, and that they're just used to simplify categorisations of large groups of people.

@Kekkaishi that was awful. You haven't met, or so much as seen or heard of most people who claim to be bi. Beyond that, have you learned nothing from your time here? That how someone naturally looks does not at all indicate their sexuality? Go back to the dark ages

If someone looks like a fag and he claims to be BI, then by all means he does not like women!

The f*** was that?!
Are you guys crazy? What are you doing in a gay porn forum being so bigoted, really?

Really? Of course it does!

Yet most who claim to be BI are actually MOSTLY gay!
you can tell it also by their appearance, If someone looks like a fag and he claims to be BI, then by all means he does not like women!