<![CDATA[Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position!]]>I am a nurse and i put an ad for giving nursing care to indoor patients (not in a hospital) so i can gain a little extra incoming.
I am now employed by a man to take care of his bed ridden grandmother.
The problem is that the guy is very attractive to me and he managed to wake emotions that i have buried a  long time. I think, he is gay.
I think that day by the day, i a falling for him and i do not know what to do here!
Should i confess to him that i really like him at the risk of losing my job?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/22244/need-some-advice-i-am-in-a-tough-positionRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 18:41:59 GMTWed, 18 Nov 2015 23:44:39 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Tue, 24 Nov 2015 07:45:50 GMT]]>@zvonac:

in my opinion, it wouldn't be very unprofessional to try and get closer to the guy… he is not your patient, his grandmother is, so I don't see a big problem here. Yes, you might end up without a job if he doesn't like you back, but overall, I wouldn't say it would be unprofessional on your part.

If you're doing work for someone's family then it seems appropriate to act professionally so long as you are working.

As well, if you're in a situation where someone is needing a nurse, there's probably plenty of intense emotions floating around and that just seems like a minefield not worth walking in. There's a remote chance it could go well, but personally I could imagine plenty more ways it could result in someone being absolutely disgusted.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158300https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158300Tue, 24 Nov 2015 07:45:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Tue, 24 Nov 2015 01:13:45 GMT]]>Wait…. wasn't that an episode of TrueBlood?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158283https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158283Tue, 24 Nov 2015 01:13:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Tue, 24 Nov 2015 00:41:02 GMT]]>in my opinion, it wouldn't be very unprofessional to try and get closer to the guy… he is not your patient, his grandmother is, so I don't see a big problem here. Yes, you might end up without a job if he doesn't like you back, but overall, I wouldn't say it would be unprofessional on your part.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158282https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158282Tue, 24 Nov 2015 00:41:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Mon, 23 Nov 2015 21:03:49 GMT]]>I agree with the other posters, keep it professional and do your job. If you want extra money and sex, try working the streets  >:D

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158277https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158277Mon, 23 Nov 2015 21:03:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Mon, 23 Nov 2015 19:06:42 GMT]]>For the British among us, this sounds like a Dear Deidre….however op keep it professional.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158270https://community.gaytor.rent/post/158270Mon, 23 Nov 2015 19:06:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Sat, 21 Nov 2015 23:13:42 GMT]]>WELL! LET TIME TAKE ITS COURSE 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157975https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157975Sat, 21 Nov 2015 23:13:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 16:47:15 GMT]]>Thank you all for your advice! 😉 😄

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157672https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157672Thu, 19 Nov 2015 16:47:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 15:16:26 GMT]]>I think you just crushed with that guy!
At this moment, as other guys said, keep your work and do it professionally!
Time goes by, you can see he will be really into you or not!
That will be the time for you to say something!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157667https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157667Thu, 19 Nov 2015 15:16:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 08:32:32 GMT]]>Wait until your job with this man is over.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157647https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157647Thu, 19 Nov 2015 08:32:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 06:32:16 GMT]]>What's that old chestnut they always say?

"A job in hand is better than a hand job."

Wait, I don't think anyone actually says that but it sounds like it applies here.  In case it catches on as a saying I'll take my royalty cheques now please, all I got is a hand job.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157637https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157637Thu, 19 Nov 2015 06:32:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 04:25:49 GMT]]>Agree with everyone. Not worth risking your job over.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157621https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157621Thu, 19 Nov 2015 04:25:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 02:22:07 GMT]]>Be professional. seek someone else to put your feelings towards.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157604https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157604Thu, 19 Nov 2015 02:22:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 00:52:11 GMT]]>**My friend, you are there to do a job and are getting paid to do so.  Your most important thing for you to do when you are there at his (her) home is to take care of his grandmother.  She seems to be very important to him, that he asked you to help take care of her. Do your job and stay professional when you are there taking care of her. Just be professional, if you really need the extra income just do your job. **

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157593https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157593Thu, 19 Nov 2015 00:52:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position! on Thu, 19 Nov 2015 00:20:47 GMT]]>Be professional and keep it to yourself!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157592https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157592Thu, 19 Nov 2015 00:20:47 GMT