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      jonas32
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      @nescho:

      I wouldn't do it… for me the point of relationship is to have no that kind of relations with other people.
      I'd maybe try a 3some if I was single, but I don't want anyone else beside my partner when I'm in a relationship.

      Sex with the man you love is wonderful. Love and sex are not the same thing. It could. But i belive sex and love are two different things

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        nescho
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        I agree that love and sex are not the same thing, that's why I don't mix them.
        When I'm single then I just have sex with the guys, when I have a long term bf then I don't just have sex - I can really say it's making love (as corny as it may sound) and there's no room for 3rd person in that.
        Whoever experienced that feeling will know what I'm talking about. Sex is great, but sex with the one you love brings it to another level and I'd rather have that with one person that "normal" sex with tons of other guys.

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          deflorare
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          Leave him and never speak to him again.  😉

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            nature1490
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            Well I have often dated in polyamory style relationships so doing 3somes and 4somes were normal.  Though even with my wife, since I'm bi, she is thinking of letting me bring in a person to the relationship at a future date, so I can have both sides of my sexuality completed.

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              ttwww
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              i would accept

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                upNXT
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                I think I couldn't do this

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                  warpaint
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                  I would do it with my ex bf. I don't know why I just couldn't find him attractive maybe that's why. Guy I'm meeting with right now I don't think I would agree. I just want him to myself. But on the other hand I guess it's good asking about these things. I would be grateful cause if somebody has thought like that it's better that they come to you first not cheat on you.

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                    fistsafe
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                    threesome leather and ff is amazing

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                      yaet
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                      I'd say: Why stop at three? Why don't we have a party?  🙂

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                        humandoormat
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                        end it  :cry2:

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                          umstud19
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                          Yeah, in my experience it usually means one or both are bored to some degree either with the partner or the sex or both. Personally I think 3 somes are hot to watch but not nearly as fun to participate in, invariable someone ends up feeling left out to one degree or other. Never had a threesome with 3 random people, that might be different, but when two out of three are in a relationship of some kind it isn't as hot in practice as you would think.

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                            jonas32
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                            @umstud19:

                            Yeah, in my experience it usually means one or both are bored to some degree either with the partner or the sex or both. Personally I think 3 somes are hot to watch but not nearly as fun to participate in, invariable someone ends up feeling left out to one degree or other. Never had a threesome with 3 random people, that might be different, but when two out of three are in a relationship of some kind it isn't as hot in practice as you would think.

                            My husband and i have 3somes once in a while with a good friend. And i dont belive we are bored with our sexlive or eatchother. And i have never felt outside, because i have 2 cocks to play with. And i also have 2 holes and 2 hands so no one is left behind 😉

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                              umstud19
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                              @jonas32:

                              @umstud19:

                              Yeah, in my experience it usually means one or both are bored to some degree either with the partner or the sex or both. Personally I think 3 somes are hot to watch but not nearly as fun to participate in, invariable someone ends up feeling left out to one degree or other. Never had a threesome with 3 random people, that might be different, but when two out of three are in a relationship of some kind it isn't as hot in practice as you would think.

                              My husband and i have 3somes once in a while with a good friend. And i dont belive we are bored with our sexlive or eatchother. And i have never felt outside, because i have 2 cocks to play with. And i also have 2 holes and 2 hands so no one is left behind 😉

                              As with anything there are always exceptions, it's great that you and your husband are able to pull it off without any adverse effects to your relationship, I would venture to say that most people can't.

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                                boyjohn
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                                I'm finding gay relationships to be more and more polygamous especially as the relationship grows with time. This is not so with heterosexual relationships.  Do you think this polygamous characteristic is a good thing or a bad thing?

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                                  umstud19
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                                  @boyjohn:

                                  I'm finding gay relationships to be more and more polygamous especially as the relationship grows with time. This is not so with heterosexual relationships.  Do you think this polygamous characteristic is a good thing or a bad thing?

                                  I agree 1000000% Long term gay relationships that stay monogamous are very much the exception, the longer the relationship goes on the greater the likelihood that there will be infidelity or that the relationship will morph into some variant of an "open relationship" In my opinion this tendency is a bad thing. Although it may seem fun or even natural when you're younger, as you get older it just ends up robbing you of valuable years of youth with little to show for it.

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                                    sychosteve
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                                    when I was in a relationship I did NOT like the idea of being in a threesome… however if I wasn't the one in the relationship I didn't mind participating in a threesome lol

                                    kinda have a doublestandard here

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                                      jonas32
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                                      @umstud19:

                                      @jonas32:

                                      @umstud19:

                                      Yeah, in my experience it usually means one or both are bored to some degree either with the partner or the sex or both. Personally I think 3 somes are hot to watch but not nearly as fun to participate in, invariable someone ends up feeling left out to one degree or other. Never had a threesome with 3 random people, that might be different, but when two out of three are in a relationship of some kind it isn't as hot in practice as you would think.

                                      My husband and i have 3somes once in a while with a good friend. And i dont belive we are bored with our sexlive or eatchother. And i have never felt outside, because i have 2 cocks to play with. And i also have 2 holes and 2 hands so no one is left behind 😉

                                      As with anything there are always exceptions, it's great that you and your husband are able to pull it off without any adverse effects to your relationship, I would venture to say that most people can't.

                                      They are both tops and my husband gets turned to share me and i get to cocks to play with 🙂

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