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    Have you ever met some muslims who come out?

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      wohdin
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      See, the crazy thing is that I have several friends from the Middle East (mostly from Saudi Arabia) and they've all told me the same stories - that homosexual behavior is absolutely rampant among young people there, particularly in high schools and universities. Like to the point where you almost can't avoid getting hit on by other guys. It's extremely out in the open in those spaces. The thing you have to realize about the Middle East is that, just like in the west, their culture is split between two opposing extremes - the extreme right, i.e. groups like the Islamic Brotherhood, the religious police, the people who believe that stoning someone to death is a perfectly acceptable thing to do in the 21st century, etc., and the "extreme left" (who are really just left-leaning moderates that are painted by the extreme right to look like sinful heathens just because their religion, or rather, their personal interpretation of their religion, disagrees with certain things that they believe). It's 100% identically the same dynamic as what we have in America and many other Christian-oriented countries - the only difference is their magic poison of choice.

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        aushook
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        I live in indonesia, but I'm a christian and I'm pretty much out. do I know a muslim who is gay and out? no, but that's partly because I don't know a lot of gays here, it's probably bc they're so scared to come out. but I do know one of my friends who is gay and muslim but is still so scared to come out. he came out to me, though.

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          alveer
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          sad

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            alveer
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            yes

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              vaylon 0
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              I know a lot of out gay Muslims. It really all comes down to the sect of Islam you're from.

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                mohanaddsami
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                @spam17:

                @antstorm:

                ..

                why would be out and Muslim be any different than say out and catholic or out and mormon , out and hindu or Jew ?

                That's a good question..

                ;D

                haha because we more committed or at least in my country, no sex before mirage no alcohol and so on

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                  spam17
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                  _Committments ..

                  ;D_

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                    Shami94
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                    I know lots of Muslims who are out and I'm in India where a lot of people are very conservative. In fact I think it is easier for Muslim boys to come out to their families than Hindus like me. I came out to my sister and she told the rest of my family which caused a disaster for a few months, but they got over it. I am talking about educated relatively wealthy families in Mysore and Bangalore. I know it is different for other situations. Muslim culture in India, and I think most of the Islamic world, has more of a history of tolerance and acceptance of homosexuality than a lot of people think. For example Homosexuality was legalised throughout the Ottoman Empire (including Arabia) in 1850 I think, where it was still the death penalty in England. Saudi Arabia only made it illegal again in 1980 and Iran in 1979. Iran had a gay royal wedding in the 70's. People shouldn't make the mistake to think that recent intolerance and violence towards gays in some Muslim countries is based on some essential feature of Islam. It isn't. It is recent and all about politics. Homosexual sex is still technically illegal here, but the law that makes it illegal was introduced by the British.

                    And as for ISIS throwing gays off buildings, people should first and foremost realise that ISIS were throwing gay MUSLIMS off buildings. The vast majority of the people ISIS have murdered were Muslims.

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                      alveer
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                      yes

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                        JohnAllenson
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                        I'm Jewish and live in Toronto.

                        There are at least three local Queer Muslim groups including a gay inclusive mosque.  The Imam and his husband are friends of mine.

                        I know of Gay outreach mosques in the USA, South Africa, England, and France.

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                          alveer
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                          true

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                            lvkewlkid
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                            I live in Israel and the only Muslims I know that are "out of the closet" were on the news because they had to take asylum in another country due to their own family/clan's homophobia and basically their whole village wanting to kill them.  They came back but have to be really careful.  One moved to a Jewish-majority town as a result.  They are 18 years old…

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                              Mcjl
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                              I've never met one.

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                                nickys1177
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                                Im sure there are a lot.. The problem is the religions forbids them to be out and gay

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