I'm virgin…
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if guys tell stories at work and ask for your experience, lie. They are doing it as well
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don't rush
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I'm 20 and I had the same feeling. I wanted to lose my virginity just to have sex and experience it. But at the same time it felt wrong to me. Though I ended up giving in and having sex and afterwards I kinda regretted it. I think I overhyped sex too much in my mind or in a way I might have tried to force myself not to hype it up. But at the end of the day sex wasn't like what guys always bragged about. It felt good but honestly to this day I have better orgasms by myself than with others.
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So I have a slightly different view on the situation - I think sex instincts are given by nature and one MUST use it otherwise it will show up in other bad ways - physically and mentally. Besides, one needs to start exploring one's sexual likes and dislikes from an early age. Because it takes a long time to find out what one is necessarily into - not just str8, bi or gay. Even within those categories, there are different things that turn different people on. You have to find out yourself. So sex should be with multiple partners - explore and reflect on each hookup …what you liked and what you did not. I am in my thirties and got active in my early teen years. Can't say I have fully discovered myself yet.
Modern morality about sex with multiple partners being bad ....being faithful is a virtue ....etc. etc. are not NATURAL. It is superimposed upon us by Christianity and Islam.
So for god's sake, go lose your virginity. Hookup with guys - and find out what is it that you enjoy and what not. Sex should be just one facet of your life - not your ENTIRE life. And if you are 22 but never got laid, sex (and thinking about sex) will become your life. That is not healthy. -
in the first step make good BF
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after that u can explore every thing with him step by step in safe sex
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do u feel u r gay or not this is very important quistion
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If you're looking for sex, well there's a lot of safe places where you can go to relieve yourselves but sure not in Gaybar !!!
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or gay party
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There is nothing wrong with being a virgin…..I wished I could say I'm still a virgin, but virginity departed from me when I was in highschool.....
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I'm 22 and still virgin. Never ever had sex with man or women before. Sometimes i want to have a one night stand but somethinng stops me and i feel it's not right . I havent came out yet. Really get mad sometimes
Getting naked with another guy always feel a little anxious and scary. But you've got to just get over it. You're biologically programmed to reproduce and you need the touch of a man (or woman) psychologically, everyone does. Get Grindr or whatever and start dating - it's what humans are supposed to do.
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i have the same problem
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The way I see it, there's no problem about being virgin. I deem it that you are good enough not to randomly have sex with people just for the sake of losing virginity and still patient enough to let it be taken away only by your most special one later.
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No need to rush at all. I've waited until I was 22 to have sex and I don't regret it.
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don't rush it, do it when you feel comfortable for best satisfaction
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Even I am handsome and great body! But it is the same! Gays approached me, but I don't like ones approaching me, ones I like, i don't know how to approach them!
You'll know when it's the right time to do something for the first time. I was 24 before I did anything with a guy, and even then it was only mutual handjobs…and then another year before I tried oral. I think I was 28 before I fucked.
I think some of my "slow start" was because I didn't want to connect with guys, much less have sex with them, unless I thought they were Mr. Totally Perfect. Needless to say, life was a bit lonely for me. But soon I learned that I could be friends with other gay guys for friendship's sake, not simply as a prelude to sex.
Still, I don't worry about having "lost time." I've had two wonderful relationships, several more boyfriends, and if I just want sex for its own sake, it's definitely available...but that has less appeal as I get older.
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Nearly 28 and virgin here. No problem at all
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Just do it when you feel prepared for that, or when you find someone you feel comfortable with to do it
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