My experience with a non-competitive bodybuilder simply occured because there was mutual attraction when our eyes met in the least expected circumstance. My experience wasn't actually muscle worship but plain sexual encounter but obviously

Probably, attending a bodybuilding show might work considering there will be plenty of bodybuilders around.

• Don't look desperate for muscle (haha). Looking desperate might be perceived as a turn-off. Self-control and some mystery might make you look more intersting and someone good to explore in all areas.  :cool2:
• If you already work out and have a more or less sculpted body then certainly you have an advantage there you can use on your favour.