<![CDATA[Stopping using condoms in long term relationships. When, how?]]>Have you ever talked with your long term partner about stopping using condoms in your sex life?

If so, have you actually started having sex without condoms?

Have you noticed any difference?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/18402/stopping-using-condoms-in-long-term-relationships-when-howRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 17:02:37 GMTSat, 13 Jun 2015 22:56:39 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Stopping using condoms in long term relationships. When, how? on Fri, 26 Jun 2015 10:32:23 GMT]]>Me and my boyfriend started talking about if we wanted to skip the condom after ca 1-1 and 1/2 year together, but first we both got tested, just to be completely sure.

I really like not using the condom, but I would newer skip it unless I trusted my partner 1000%..

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134798https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134798Fri, 26 Jun 2015 10:32:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Stopping using condoms in long term relationships. When, how? on Sun, 21 Jun 2015 21:49:29 GMT]]>It all depends on an honest assessment of yourself and your partner. I know I am an extremely sexual and horny guy and cannot stay totally 'monogamous' even in a long term relationship. By BF is the same way. So I always use a condom. We are honest to each other about our dishonesty…so to speak. We even invite a hot bottom in our bedroom once in a while to fuck him together. We'll never stop using condoms cos of that. Just too risky.
But I know of couples that are extremely faithful to each other - in that case I would quit condoms all together.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134168https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134168Sun, 21 Jun 2015 21:49:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Stopping using condoms in long term relationships. When, how? on Sun, 21 Jun 2015 01:36:17 GMT]]>There has to be a conversation of exclusivity first, as far as I'm concerned, or some expectation that the risk is very minimal (like you're on prep or one of you is poz but undetectable, etc).

I loathe condoms. I honestly can't get off topping with one on, so if it hits anal sex territory at all with me, that conversation always comes up (I'm still negative, and am looking to get on prep).

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134006https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134006Sun, 21 Jun 2015 01:36:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Stopping using condoms in long term relationships. When, how? on Mon, 15 Jun 2015 05:14:56 GMT]]>@belgravia85:

Have you ever talked with your long term partner about stopping using condoms in your sex life?

If so, have you actually started having sex without condoms?

Have you noticed any difference?

We just was out of condoms one night….

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133293https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133293Mon, 15 Jun 2015 05:14:56 GMT