It's called preference, not an absolute rule.

I'm not questioning anyone's preferences... nor making any rules... all I'm saying is that if you allow yourself to be objectified in your own relationships (sexual or romantic), you're making a mistake. And self-objectifying yourself is something ONLY YOU can stop!

My recommendation is to find mates (sexual and romantic) who like the whole you, not just your cock-and-balls. Your smooth (or bushy) chest, your round (or flat) butt, your blue (or brown) eyes...

So long as it's not REALLY out of balance, having a small dick (or small balls) shouldn't be a deal-changer for people worth your time! If there is a REAL issue, talk to a plastic surgeon - there are such things as prosthetic testicles... but IMHO, that's way overkill!

In my experience, guys who are attracted ONLY to "big, black cocks" (or "big balls") are not worth the price of a cheap dildo. (That's not to say that fantasizing about BBC is a bad thing - but fantasy should not control reality!)

@raphjd said in Does the size of a guy's balls matter?:

@wf6969

As long as they are in proportion to the dick, all's good.

Too big or too small compared to the dick looks odd.

No offense, but barring a situation where they look REALLY ODD, I don't think the size of your testicles will have any effect on your ability to have sex - or, more importantly, make love.

Were you gifted with a set of equipment that is "porn ready"? You've already come to grips with that answer being a no (you say at the outset: "I think I'm ok in cock size - just over 6 inches" - and let's face it, 6-inch dicks are not common in porn!)... so stop worrying about it! Take a look at a site like Chaturbate sometime: there are as many kinds of dicks and balls as there as there are faces! Truly an INFINITE variety! But even there, the "display of dick" isn't complete: these are only people who feel like they have something "special" to show! Most of us come to grips rather early in life that our bodies are "just average"...

I would, however, say that trying to find a mate based on the looks of your equipment is a mistake - whether you have a 6-inch cock and small balls, or a 12-in monster with huge balls... find people who like YOU to have sex with... not people who only like your dick! You will have much less heartache (and a much better sex life) as a result!

It's called preference, not an absolute rule.

@wf6969

As long as they are in proportion to the dick, all's good.

Too big or too small compared to the dick looks odd.

No offense, but barring a situation where they look REALLY ODD, I don't think the size of your testicles will have any effect on your ability to have sex - or, more importantly, make love.

Were you gifted with a set of equipment that is "porn ready"? You've already come to grips with that answer being a no (you say at the outset: "I think I'm ok in cock size - just over 6 inches" - and let's face it, 6-inch dicks are not common in porn!)... so stop worrying about it! Take a look at a site like Chaturbate sometime: there are as many kinds of dicks and balls as there as there are faces! Truly an INFINITE variety! But even there, the "display of dick" isn't complete: these are only people who feel like they have something "special" to show! Most of us come to grips rather early in life that our bodies are "just average"...

I would, however, say that trying to find a mate based on the looks of your equipment is a mistake - whether you have a 6-inch cock and small balls, or a 12-in monster with huge balls... find people who like YOU to have sex with... not people who only like your dick! You will have much less heartache (and a much better sex life) as a result!

As long as they are in proportion to the dick, all's good.

Too big or too small compared to the dick looks odd.

I think this one is natural:  Edison from Chaosmen

I think I'm ok in cock size - just over 6 inches - but I think i have small balls.  They just don't make a big bulge in underwear or speedos.  How important is the size of a guys nuts to you?  
Mine always seem to be up tight - definitely not low-hangers unless I just got out of a hot shower.  Is that bad?
Are tight balls a turn-off?

The first time I had an experience with a guy with a HUGE ball sack, I was in absolute heaven!!! So, I'm not gonna lie, I loved that shit. But at the same time, I would never say that I can't go out with a guy that doesn't have one. That would be stupid and childish. I'm dating the man, not his ball sack.

-AOS