<![CDATA[Were more people interested in you after you came out?]]>When you guys came out, did you get more interest from other guys or even girls compared to when you weren't out? Tell your stories!!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/17905/were-more-people-interested-in-you-after-you-came-outRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 14:01:06 GMTThu, 21 May 2015 15:55:51 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Sun, 24 May 2015 07:32:51 GMT]]>I don't know if the numbers changed, but my perspective did. When I was "in", I was trying so hard to be "straight" I couldn't really see who was interested in me. After I came out, because I was honest with myself, I could see that people (guys and girls) were interested in me.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130599https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130599Sun, 24 May 2015 07:32:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Sun, 24 May 2015 05:36:33 GMT]]>@Boomacha:

when you're more open and honest you start attracting like minded souls

I was thinking something along these lines too, maybe more so the vibes a person puts out. Maybe after coming out some people have more self-confidence, less stress, less or no depression (if that was a thing for them), maybe just a happier and more pleasant person to be around. Well, yea, actually, I imagine it does all those things for most people.

Coming out did wonders for me. I'm out to friend and family, but not at work…on the verge, out everywhere else.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130591https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130591Sun, 24 May 2015 05:36:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Sat, 23 May 2015 21:28:20 GMT]]>Yes.

A lot of my friends were able to understand me in a different way.

Also, if I wasn't out, I wouldn't have met my three ex-boyfriends. 😉

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130540https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130540Sat, 23 May 2015 21:28:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Sat, 23 May 2015 11:25:16 GMT]]>when you're more open and honest you start attracting like minded souls

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130436https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130436Sat, 23 May 2015 11:25:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Fri, 22 May 2015 08:33:40 GMT]]>I experienced it like that. There were a lot of people at my school, mainly asking me stupid questions… :afr:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130222https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130222Fri, 22 May 2015 08:33:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Fri, 22 May 2015 05:45:35 GMT]]>I don't know if you post this thread right after you watch G.B.F  😄

I only came out to some of my closest friends. Its not a public announcement, so there is no difference.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130204https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130204Fri, 22 May 2015 05:45:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Thu, 21 May 2015 16:53:36 GMT]]>What do you mean?  ::)

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130125https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130125Thu, 21 May 2015 16:53:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Were more people interested in you after you came out? on Thu, 21 May 2015 16:22:41 GMT]]>What is your story?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130119https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130119Thu, 21 May 2015 16:22:41 GMT