There's also not much different (in my opinion) about going to a club with the full intent of getting laid within the same night, save for the fact that you have a better chance to make sure you wind up with someone you're really into and there's less judgmental, social stigma attached to getting your one-night-stand jollies that way. 

@antstorm:

For a Curious Aussie who is very much a Poof with Victorian ( not the state i live in , but the era ) Sensibilities
would someone please explain what this craigslist doomajiggamy thing is , i see people discussing it on forums and hear it in North American shows , but don't really know what it is.

Imagine eBay, but all local and done person-to-person. And personal ads, room-mates, pets, appliances, etc. Like an old newspaper.

And unfortunately I did use this terrible site, when I was first trying things out, before Grindr. Yuck, you can expect what you find on there.

ok so its like our equivalent which is gumtree but with added sexual liasons

For a Curious Aussie who is very much a Poof with Victorian ( not the state i live in , but the era ) Sensibilities
would someone please explain what this craigslist doomajiggamy thing is , i see people discussing it on forums and hear it in North American shows , but don't really know what it is.

Imagine eBay, but all local and done person-to-person. And personal ads, room-mates, pets, appliances, etc. Like an old newspaper.

And unfortunately I did use this terrible site, when I was first trying things out, before Grindr. Yuck, you can expect what you find on there.