Hi guys!

I am 18 years old and since I can remember older men(10 years+) are really attractive to me. I recently met a man, quite a bit, older than me and we really like each other.

What are your opinions on these types of relationships?

Love is love, but just make sure he's not manipulating you for the sake of having a fine young body, some older guys just want arm candy until they find someone else.

I see no problems except the older you go the less interests you'll have in common. If you can find someone that clicks then go for it

To me, this is someone who is responsible, capable, creative, independent, and who wants me for myself, not as a meal ticket.

In addition, he finds me intellectually challenging, the kind of body type he dreams of, and someone who knows lots of things he does not about life and sex and other things. Since he knows a completely different range of things about life, sex, and the rest, we can be good friends as well as lovers. He is not only striking handsome and constantly horny, but someone I'm pleased to know and grow with.

Unlike some people his age, he is able to write and think and is not shallow or ignorant, though again, I grew up with the Beatles (Paul McCartney's old backup band, LOL), and in a much more homophobic time before the plague arrived. I find the mix of our alien backgrounds as exciting as his body and how he uses it, and his mind is definitely a pleasure to know as well.

i have always been interested in men 50+ and i have been with my partner for 6 years,38 years difference.

I met my husband a few days after my 20th birthday.  He was 32.  We are still together.  I am almost 62, he 74.

Wow. 4 decades, just amazing! I hope I get to meet someone special too…

I met my husband a few days after my 20th birthday.  He was 32.  We are still together.  I am almost 62, he 74.

Wow, congratulations!!!

I'm with you too. I am generally attracted to guys who are matured[read 35+] and I fine them well experienced and not prone to pre-ejaculation.

But I've also found one prone to NO-ejaculation. LOL  :cry2: 

I had my first time with a bear (the destiny), he is not athletic, but with a strong manly body, not fat but not thin. He was a "Normal" guy, but well built. I just went into heavens when i was fucked by him. 29 years old and i have 19, 10 years of difference are great. He is so experienced, and i had any. He knew how to touch me , make me horny. Unfortunately, i just fucked him one time, because he lived in another city.

I can say to you that i loved to stay with an hot older guy, and realized that i wanna to enjoy still when i'm a "twink". Because one of the best experiences a guy can have in his sex life is to have sex with an nice older guy, with experience. The gap of 10-15 years seems nice to me. I expect to have sex with another older guys.

I think it's great!!!
But i should do a PS: I'm not sure about an long-term relationship, because, he'll get older than you sooner, and that isn't so nice (my opinion), i think that you'll reach a strange point .

So, enjoy older guys for not so long periods. Imagine them as teachers, you'll get experience and sensations with them, but not have classes with the same teacher forever. I just reccomend you that.

So don't worry about being attracted to a narrow type when you're young (you're only 19 after all); it's perfectly normal. But also don't be surprised when your tastes start to change, evolve and expand. It's part of growing up, so be open and enjoy it. Actually, if your taste in men never changes, I would worry that you are NOT maturing as a person.

No man should expect or be expected to support another man.

Personally, I don't see the problem with this if it is explicitly stated in the relationship. It's obviously different if the person with money is being taken advantage of by the other under the guise of love.

I find I have stricter criteria for meeting older men. In addition to being attractive, they'd have to be smart(you're old, you should be experienced and well-learned so that we have something in common besides sex) and financially well-off(I'm young enough to be your son, you better be treating me like it).

On the first part I agree; intelligence is an attractive quality. However I don't want a "sugar daddy", I don't like to be treated like an invalid or something.